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| THE STRESS OF NOT KNOWING! |
| 04.17.08 (12:33 pm) [edit] |
Good morning to all and I just have a further up-date to the situation with
my son.****
Over the past week I have been in steady contact with
my sons' mother and have yet to hear from my son as of this moment yet. As I
have discovered my son is up in Northern Alberta and
is currently working on a
major pipeline that is being built up there. He is
in a very remote part of the province where he is apparently so isolated that
he does not have immediate
access to to a phone or even the internet and sometimes it may be days or very rarely even weeks before anyone hears from him!****
Well as I must accept the circumstances as they currently are, it has done very little for the stress that I feel waiting in anticipation of talking with him for the first time
and perhaps even seeing him
for the first time also.
In situations like this many things have gone through my mind, as to what
I will say to him. I find myself at times rehearsing
what I will say to him in
response to certain general questions he may ask of me but this is unlike me and it feels very unnatural. Who knows what questions he may have of me. Since there is really no way of knowing this perhaps I should ease up on berating myself and
maybe this shall ease the tension and stress for all concerned.****
Well folks that is all for this day and thank you for all your attention and support.Take care all and adios for now!
Timm17
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posted by: auntconi (reply)
post date: 04.17.08 (11:37 am)
Well, since I don't know the whole situation ~ and not that I need to...
Since it has been so long since you've heard from him, and his situation as told to you by another person is that he isn’t able to contact easily, I’d say just go on with your life and he will contact you when/if he is able/wishes to do so. Then take it from there.
You should stop worrying/fretting about what ‘he might ask you’ ~ this is doing you no good. Stress helps no one, period!
Are you and his mother getting back together? If so then your attention needs to be there, don’t you think?
Well, I’ll get off here now and let someone else toss in another ‘two cents’ worth.
I hope you have a good day ~ it is gloriously beautiful here today in western Michigan. Ahhh ~ nice weather is returning!